I can't believe the bad luck I am having with this species of fish :cry:.
Yesterday the male P.t. Lobe slaughtered the female. I found her with all her fins shredded.
They were getting along so well, she would follow him around like a puppy, they would swim together, each would do the little shimmy dance to the other or they would do the dance together. Then he just kills her.
I know this happens in the cichlid world but is this behavior common?
Will he always be a "wife" killer?
Since I am going up north this weekend, the lfs I purchased the pair from say they will let me trade him in. Otherwise it could be months before I get him another female. I am not sure I want to even attempt pairing him if he is eventually going to kill her. This just sucks. Hmmmm, I am beginning to think a higher force is trying to tell me something about this species. After two failures, perhaps I should just stick with South American dwarves.
Yesterday the male P.t. Lobe slaughtered the female. I found her with all her fins shredded.
They were getting along so well, she would follow him around like a puppy, they would swim together, each would do the little shimmy dance to the other or they would do the dance together. Then he just kills her.
I know this happens in the cichlid world but is this behavior common?
Will he always be a "wife" killer?
Since I am going up north this weekend, the lfs I purchased the pair from say they will let me trade him in. Otherwise it could be months before I get him another female. I am not sure I want to even attempt pairing him if he is eventually going to kill her. This just sucks. Hmmmm, I am beginning to think a higher force is trying to tell me something about this species. After two failures, perhaps I should just stick with South American dwarves.