My name is janeen from washington state just north of seattle. I have had rams for 2mos and I'm now hooked and soon purchasing a pair of cockatoo's from a pet store near my home. They have double and triple reds. My question is how to tell for sure if a female is a female when they are only a 1/2 to 1 inch long. Some of the fish seem to have dorsal fins that are equal from front to back, but they also have color on the dorsal and caudal fins. I would love to hear from someone who knows. thanks janeen:redface: