Is this a sneaker male A. cacatuoides? Or is it a female? I first thought it was a female but im beginning to think its a sneaker male because it avoids my other male cacatuoides like in a boxing ring and doesnt seem to swim near him instead it hides, when it sees the male it seems to want to appear bigger by extending its fins like in the picture. Even tho its smaller its caudal fin is slightly lyre shaped but not as obvious as the real male